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Was it one series too many for After Life? A review

Posted on July 16, 2025 by SCARFMAN

A blog that argues that the black comedy After Life, should have ended in its prime after series 2. Disappointing third series Having just finished watching the third series of After Life by Ricky Gervais, I am left feeling somewhat … Continue reading →

Posted in COMEDY, EMOTION, ENTERTAINMENT, grief, POPULAR CULTURE, THE ARTS, TV, TV REVIEW, UK TV, Uncategorized | Tagged AFTER LIFE, AFTER LIFE REVIEW, BLACK COMEDY, BRIAN, DAVID BRADLEY, DEALING WITH GRIEF, EMOTIVE, Family, Grief, GRIEVING, LIFE, LISA, LOSS, MOURNING, MOVING, NETFLIX, PENELOPE WILTON, RICKY GERVAIS, SERIES 1, SERIES 2, SERIES 3, TONY JOHNSON, tv review, WIDOW, WIDOWED | Leave a comment

My first ever OCD talk at Staffordshire University, what a rewarding day

Posted on July 2, 2025 by SCARFMAN

One of the best days of my life It is not hyperbole to state that May 15th, 2025, was one of the best days of my life so far. This was the day I gave my first ever OCD talk … Continue reading →

Posted in ANXIETY, EMOTION, HEALTH, MENTAL HEALTH, TRUE STORIES, Uncategorized | Tagged 2025, alex preston, anxiety, CBT, Dr Sarah Watts, EDUCATION, EMPATHY, may 15th, mental health, midlands, Midlands Partnership University NHS Foundation Trust, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD, post grad diploma, POST GRADUATE DIPLOMA IN CBT, PSYCHOLOGY, public speaking, rewarding, STAFFORDSHIRE, staffordshire University, trainees, writing | Leave a comment

A brave new world as a lived experience expert at Keele and Staffordshire Universities

Posted on July 2, 2025 by SCARFMAN

A new lived experience expert Monday, March 10th, 2025, a day that will be etched in my memory till the end of my days. You see, this was my first day working in the field of mental health, namely as … Continue reading →

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Finally cracking my hellish pelvic pain case, with exercises and pelvic floor relaxation

Posted on February 26, 2025 by SCARFMAN

Just as I was starting to think my old chronic pelvic pain problem was a thing I needed to completely forget about, wham, it came back and hit me where it hurts last December time. Step forward my specialist pelvic … Continue reading →

Posted in ANXIETY, EMOTION, mens health, MENTAL HEALTH, TRUE STORIES, Uncategorized | Tagged CHRONIC ILLNESS, CHRONIC PELVIC PAIN, fight-or-flight, Health, HOPE, pain, pelvic floor exercises, PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES, pelvic floor relaxation, pelvic trigger point release, physio, physiotherapy, PROSTATITIS, tension in the body | Leave a comment

My OCD has improved so much, but how do I get over my health anxiety?

Posted on February 1, 2025 by SCARFMAN

Last Tuesday, for once in my life I received good health news. My sore fingers are just chilblains the doctor said. What if he is wrong though, because they have been in the past? My health record I am scared … Continue reading →

Posted in ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, HEALTH, mens health, MENTAL HEALTH, TRUE STORIES, Uncategorized | Tagged anxiety, GOOD NEWS, Health, Health anxiety, illness anxiety, mental health, OCD, TRAUMA, traumatised | Leave a comment

Thankful Thursday, fascinating Friday, and troublesome Tuesday

Posted on January 25, 2025 by SCARFMAN

This is going to be a short piece of audio where I give you a life update regarding my chronic pelvic pain situation, some mental health work I will be doing soon, and me being nervous about a medical appointment … Continue reading →

Posted in HEALTH, OCD, TRUE STORIES, Uncategorized | Tagged 2025, anxiety, AUDIO BLOG, BLOGGING, CHRONIC BACTERIAL PROSTATITIS, CHRONIC PELVIC PAIN, Health, LIVED EXPERIENCE EXPERT, mental health, NHS, OCD, PROSTATITIS, SCIATICA, STAFFORDSHIRE, SWOLLEN FINGERS, WILMSLOW | Leave a comment

How do I find a woman to date, being a white British man of 48?

Posted on January 17, 2025 by SCARFMAN

Finally admitting to the world, I hate being a straight, single, middle-aged man, living in Britain. ‘I am going to fall in love this year.’ This has been my same New Year’s resolution for the past 20 years or more, … Continue reading →

Posted in ANXIETY, COMEDY, EMOTION, RANT, TRUE STORIES, Uncategorized | Tagged aged 48, ART, being single, books, BRITAIN, BRITISH, COMEDY, comfort zone, dating, fake profiles, heterosexual, HETROSEXUALITY, humour, ILL HEALTH, ILLNESS, MOVIES, new year's resolution, OCD, ONLINE DATING, PROSTATITIS, relationships, single man, SIR TOM JONES, straight, SUPPORT, the dating game, TRAVEL | Leave a comment

Have you heard the news today? My type 1 diabetes is A-OK

Posted on January 17, 2025 by SCARFMAN

A blog that celebrates my great self-care of my type 1 diabetes. Unexpected news ‘I am ringing-up about your diabetes’, said my diabetic nurse to me at around 10.30am today. I took a big gulp and braced myself for the … Continue reading →

Posted in DIABETES, EMOTION, HEALTH, MENTAL HEALTH, TRUE STORIES, Uncategorized | Tagged 17 years old, 48 years old, AndyScarfmanLloydblog, autoimmune, DIABETES, DIABETES CARE, diabetes type 1, DIABETIC, DIET, FIGHT, FREESTYLE LIBRE 2 SENSOR, good control, Health, mental health, nutrition, physical health, prisoner, self-care, TYPE 1 DIABETES, wellness | Leave a comment

Can Bob Mortimer, be as funny at writing novels as he is on TV? You bet

Posted on January 17, 2025 by SCARFMAN

By releasing his recent bestselling novels, The Satsuma Complex and The Hotel Avocado, Bob Mortimer, has become a complete British national treasure. Those of you wondering if TV comic royalty Bob Mortimer, might not be able to master writing comedy … Continue reading →

Posted in BOOKS, ENTERTAINMENT, POPULAR CULTURE, READING, Uncategorized | Tagged A NOVEL, BOB MORTIMER, BOOK, books, BRITISH NATIONAL TREASURE, COMEDIAN, FUNNY, GARY, humour, THE HOTEL AVOCADO, THE SATSUMA COMPLEX, THRILLER | Leave a comment

Initial utter devastation at my new prostate illness prostatitis, but this time I fight back

Posted on January 17, 2025 by SCARFMAN

A blog about the trauma of getting prostatitis again, but how I am determined not to let it ruin everything this time around. Panic At age 48, my whole world came crashing down around me just before last Christmas time. … Continue reading →

Posted in ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, EMOTION, HEALTH, mens health, MENTAL HEALTH, Uncategorized | Tagged BLADDER, burning pelvis, cancer, CHRONIC BACTERIAL PROSTATITIS, DEPRESSION, fight back, Health, infection, MALE HEALTH, MENS HEALTH, NIGHTMARE, panic, PELVIC FLOOR, PROSTATE, PROSTATE CANCER, PROSTATITIS, spasm, taboo illness, urology | Leave a comment

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Was it one series too many for After Life? A review

My first ever OCD talk at Staffordshire University, what a rewarding day

A brave new world as a lived experience expert at Keele and Staffordshire Universities

Finally cracking my hellish pelvic pain case, with exercises and pelvic floor relaxation

My OCD has improved so much, but how do I get over my health anxiety?

Thankful Thursday, fascinating Friday, and troublesome Tuesday

How do I find a woman to date, being a white British man of 48?

Have you heard the news today? My type 1 diabetes is A-OK

Can Bob Mortimer, be as funny at writing novels as he is on TV? You bet

Initial utter devastation at my new prostate illness prostatitis, but this time I fight back

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